Reasons to act like a MILF

5 Reasons to Channel Your Inner Milf

When you are out there on the dating scene, it can be scary. You might feel vulnerable, or like you are not getting anywhere with your romantic prospects. It is incredibly easy to feel discouraged. But I can guarantee there is one sub-type of woman who seldom feels depressed or vulnerable when dating. This sub-type is extremely intelligent, sexy, and - above all else - powerful. This type of woman is a MILF.

Now you might think that MILFs are best suited as a comic relief character for whatever Rom-Com or Buddy-Cop movie you are watching. But when it comes down to it a MILF is someone every woman should try to be. Sure, you may have youth on your side, but Cougars have so much more: they understand their body, they understand men (at least a little better than 20-somethings), and they have all the experience that younger women do not have. When it comes to dating a cougar is truely at an advantage.

  1. Don't Be Shy

    One of the most important tips presented to us was not being shy. Whether you're in the bedroom already or trying to make your way there, being confident and remaining cool, calm and collected is vital. As an older woman, she's already experienced the plenty awkward taboos that sometimes come with sexual encounters, so don't sweat the little things and just go for it.

    She knows exactly what she's gotten herself into by coming home with you or inviting you to her place - don't second-guess yourself or what may or may not be happening, and just enjoy it. She's not going to be shy with you, so it would only be rude for you to be shy with her.

    Here are just some of the reasons to channel your inner MILF:

  2. 1. Confidence

    When it comes to confidence, MILFs are easily some of the most confident people on the planet.

    Confidence is usually something that comes with age, especially when it comes to women. Younger girls are often crippled by the thoughts of their peers and only learn to ignore insecurities brought on by society with age.

    One of the things that makes cougars so attractive is their extreme self-confidence. Regardless of if their interested, any guy remotely worth the time of day can recognize a confidant woman and respect that.

    Cougars know that they are desirable and they certainly will not settle for anyone who thinks anything less.

  3. 2. Intelligence

    For some reason, younger women often choose to play dumb when flirting. Sure, some guys are into the dumb blonde act, but is that really what you want in a man?

    When it comes down to it, intelligence is sexy. The way women act when they are both confident and know they are intelligent is extremely attractive. There is nothing like a lady who is smart enough to not only carry on an interesting conversation but keep up with witty banter.

    Women who are not afraid of their intelligence is sometimes challenging to other men. When men realize that a woman is unabashedly intelligent they have one of two reactions: they flee, or they are intrigued. If they are intrigued and keep coming back for more then, they're worth your attention. However, if they get scared and immediately start searching for something with a lower perceived IQ, then they were not worth it in the first place.

  4. 3. Sexuality

    For some reason, people are often ashamed of their sexuality, especially younger women. This is usually because it's hard to gauge how sexy society allows you to be. If you're not sexy enough, you are automatically a prude. But if you are too sexy, you are labeled a whore. It feels like you can't win either way.

    However, older women are not afraid to own it. They have lived long enough to understand that societal norms have no place in their sex life. They know they are sexy, they know that it is okay to enjoy sex, and they don't care what anyone has to say about it.

    Plus, older women tend to have more experience under their belt. This is one of the chief reasons people find MILFs attractive. Even if you're not the most sexually experienced person, you can always fake it with a little bit of feigned (or liquid) confidence. By owning this kind of MILFy attitude, you give off an incredibly sexy and mature vibe.

  5. 4. Self-Worth

    Any MILF has extremely high self-esteem. They have been around long enough and dated enough men to know that their value isn't directly related to having a boyfriend.

    Understanding that your worth is not defined by your weight or cup size is one of the first steps to gaining self-worth. Being more experienced in both dating and life, cougars understand that their value comes from other things like their personal success and being an all around good person.

    Channeling this particular quality of MILFdom is extremely helpful in this day and age. Because of how products are marketed to women we struggle more and more with body image issues and self-worth. Understanding that you are valuable and important is one of the best things you can do for yourself and one of the key components in a MILFy attitude.

  6. 5. Dating Savvy

    Dating is tricky. And when it comes to dating, MILFs have certainly been around the block more than a few times. They understand how dating works and how to deal with guys who are not worth their time.

    It's getting harder and harder to cope in the dating world; this is probably due to increased pressure to be a renaissance woman and social media usage. It feels like you have to be on all the time. Older, more experienced Cougars understand how to juggle their professional life and personal life.

    What is one of the most common qualities about MILFs across both the big and small screens? They are successful. Even if they aren't portrayed as a successful business woman, they are successful within the household. So define what personal success means for you and make sure you're not compromising your goals all for the sake of a man.

    Even if you are not the most experienced dater, channeling this part of the MILF personality can help you in your endeavors. If you do not have the experience, fake it until you make it by reading up on sex, love, and dating in literally any fashion magazine.

    And make sure you're allotting time for yourself. You don't always have to be working or dating. So in true MILF fashion draw yourself a luxurious bubble bath and pour a glass of white wine.